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25. Why You Keep Letting Yourself Down (and How To Finally Stop)
Listen, you’ve got good ideas. Lots of them. You’ve got a strong vision. Big enough to fill an arena. And you’ve made more than a few promises to yourself about who you’re becoming.
But deep down, you also know what it feels like to ignore your inner voice and abandon the plan that’s collecting dust somewhere in the back of your mind as you say “I’ll start on Monday”, knowing you won’t
I know. I’ve been there.
And I soon realised, before I blamed it on motivation or a lack of confidence. This came down to the relationship I had with myself…
It was about self-trust and whether or not I actually believed myself when I said “I can do this”
If second-guessing, starting over, or overthinking is keeping you stuck in a loop, it’s not because there’s something wrong with you, it’s because somewhere along the line, you stopped being someone you could rely on.
The good news is that can change.
But it won’t happen with any more vision board, or an empty morning routine. It starts with honesty, small wins and rebuilding the relationship you have with the most important person in your life, you.
In this article, I reveal the thing you didn’t see that enables you to keep letting yourself down and how to finally stop.
20. The Art of Magnetism. Why Some Women Have It
We all know that one woman who moves through life attracting everything he wants, with ease. You notice her, not because he’ the loudest, or the most conventionally beautiful, in fact, a lot of the time she doesn’t necessarily fit into either category.
Nevertheless, she has presence.
Her energy is calibrated, and her movements are intentional and charged with something hard to define, yet impossible to ignore, something we call magnetism.
Magnetism isn’t something trend-driven, it’s very, very real. An energetic truth steeped in frequency that give you a glow that makes others lean in without ever understanding why.
And while the internet is busy selling you tips on how to look ‘hot’, ‘how to make men fall in love with you’, and ‘how to go viral’ but magnetic women are mastering something that means something deeper, a resonance that doesn’t beg for attention, it commands it.
So why do some women have it? And more importantly, how can you adopt it?
In this article, we are going to uncover what makes a woman powerfully magnetic so that she can draw everything toward her without moving and how you can start doing the same to bring what you want towards you.
17. Why The Girl Who Romanticises Her Life Ends Up With Everything She Wants
It was only until TikTok coined the aesthetic, which included sunsets, iced Matcha, and main-character monologues narrated over city walks, that I realised for most of my life I had been romanticising it.
But beneath the solo dates to the art galleries and trip to the florist, there’s something far more interesting happening: a neurological shift, a quiet energetic alignment that, in time, brings you face-to-face with your deepest desires.
And no, this isn’t just spiritual fluff. It’s science.
Psychology.
Quantum theory.
It’s the kind of thing you feel before you can prove it. The kind of thing that changes your life slowly, then all at once.
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In this article, I’m going to share the science behind romanticising your life, why it’s more than just a feel-good concept, and why the girl who romanticises her life ends up with everything she wants.
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