If there’s one thing I’ve learned about manifestation, it’s that love is no different from anything else you desire, it’s all about alignment. But here’s the real secret:

You don’t “get” love. You become the version of yourself that naturally attracts the love you desire.

I know this isn’t what you want to hear and you’re probably thinking

“But I know someone who suffers from low self-worth who is in a great relationship”

What I’d say to that is, don’t compare your life to someone’s highlight reel, you don’t know what lessons have been laid out for them.

Besides, I know this firsthand.

I was so confused when I first read The Secret, I believed just thinking and visualising my perfect relationship was enough, I used to approach it as if it were something outside of me, something I needed to chase or earn.

Like many other self-help writers I could easily suggest you create a vision board, think positively and keep a rose quartz under your pillow but I know those methods will get you nowhere.

It was only once I stopped looking for it and started embodying the feelings of love, and certainty within myself, things shifted.

The more I aligned with the version of me that was already in my dream relationship, the more love showed up in my life in ways I never expected.

In this blog I’m sharing the 6 steps that are often overlooked but are crucial when it comes to improving your dating life, building better connections and ultimately manifesting the perfect partner.

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I’m sure on your way over to this article you might have been slightly confused, because if you have been a part of the Coffee Moon community for even a short while, you will know I am totally on board with the idea of manifesting.

And this article isn’t to say anything against it, but more to touch on what’s missing when it comes to the subject of it.

So, why is the manifestation movement a problem?

Well, despite wholeheartedly believing in the concept of manifestation (especially because I have seen it work in my own life)

I cannot help but notice there are many parts to manifesting which are going unspoken of.

We are taught to visualise, think positively, state affirmations and just believe it will happen.

But, manifesting is far from an A-B plan, there are a few extra details to this concept that are not often spoken of, maybe self-help experts want to keep it simple by not overwhelming their student with a lot to think about, or maybe if it gets too complex it takes the magic away, or perhaps they genuinely don’t know and therefore cannot teach it.

And despite the ever-evolving manifesting movement and all of its resources, I can relate to why you may still feel stuck and unable to make your dreams comes true.

In this article, I’m going to reveal the missing pieces and what you really need to know when manifesting on purpose.

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