When I first heard that our time here in this physical space was just an illusion, I didn’t know what to think…

I said to myself “Is that a good or bad thing?”

I mean, it’s not entirely difficult to believe, sometimes it doesn’t feel real.

But what if this theory wasn’t far from the truth? What if this reality we call life was more like a game, one where the rules are hidden, but the rewards are limitless once you figure them out?

Like most, I had my realisation about life when I read the book The Secret which taught us all that we have more control over our lives than what we might have thought.

Because I promise you I had a very different outlook before this knowledge. I often felt like I was on autopilot, going through the motions of life. I didn’t realise that I was a player in a game with infinite possibilities until I started teaching myself more about personal development and consciously shifting my mindset.

In this article, we’ll explore not only this concept as a metaphor but also as a framework for understanding the world as a game, how to play, and most importantly, how you can win!

Do you ever wonder why the moment you decide you like a certain car, you suddenly start seeing that car everywhere you go? It’s like when I wanted a Tesla, I would see them everywhere, then the moment I decided I no longer wanted that car, I wouldn’t see half as many as I did when I wanted one.

Or when you create a new goal, you start stumbling across opportunities, people, and ideas that align perfectly with it?

This is not a coincidence, it’s your brain’s algorithm, otherwise known as your brain’s Reticular Activating System (RAS) filtering the world around you.

You’re welcome. For the longest time, I never knew the correct term for it either, but I knew it meant something.

And in this article, you will learn how to use your RAS to change your approach to manifestation.

For the longest time ever and well into my glow-up journey, I believed hard work equalled success.

“No pain, no gain” or “Hard work pays off.” were phrases I read in books, heard on podcasts, and within conversations with family, friends, and work colleagues.

But what if I told you that the key to receiving more was to do less. Impossible right?

“What do you mean, do less to get more?” I hear you ask. I didn’t quite get it when I first heard about this idea either, but the more I learned about it, the more it made sense.

The truth is, most people are stuck in a cycle of doing, striving, hustling, and pushing, yet they never seem to reach the level of abundance they often dream about whether it’s in money, love, career, or health.

Why? Because what they’re trying to attract on a physical level can only be attracted on a mental and vibrational one

I quickly realised that abundance flows not when I’m overexerting myself, or hustling over the next project, but when I align my energy with the version of myself I dream to be.

In this article, I’m going to share how I’ve gone from hustling every hour of the day to relaxing into the version of myself that naturally attracts success because this shift didn’t just change my mindset, it changed my life!

Time to take care of you.

There’s a lot of positive and ‘good vibes’ talk when we approach the subject of self-development and transformation but I feel it wouldn’t be genuine to discuss a glow-up without addressing the darker side.

Becoming the best version of yourself isn’t just about chasing positivity or practising daily affirmations.

True growth happens when you confront the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding—the parts buried deep within, known as your shadow side.

In this article, I’m going to share how embracing my shadow side set me free in ways I would never imagine.

It’s that level of frustration when you try to achieve greatness and reach your full potential but other people’s opinions decide to get in your way.

And at the same time, what happens when the only person getting in your way, is you?

In this article, I’m going to share how to escape the cycle of self-sabotage.

To change your life, you need to change your energy, and to change your energy you need to change your vibration.

Bob Proctor said the mistake ‘The Secret’ made was implying the Law of Attraction was the primary law, however the primary and most important law is the Law of Vibration.

In this article, I’m going to share what I do to raise mine, and how you can too.

With many nervous systems dysregulated and mindsets disorientated, we seem to have completely lost control over the pace in which our lives are going.

It reaches Friday and in no time it’s Monday morning again and we don’t know happened in between.

In this article I’m going share how to gain it back and find the beauty in slowing down.